"This is what I had to learn to do BEFORE I was able to create a life I love and a business that supports and sustains it "
– Michelle Barr
IMAGINE…
GETTING OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY!
MOVING FORWARD IN THE DIRECTION OF YOUR DREAMS AND DESIRES.
CONSCIOUSLY LIVING EACH DAY WITH PROFOUND PURPOSE, PEACE & CONNECTION
– ALL BY YOUR CREATION.
There’s nothing worse than watching life spiral out of control right before your very eyes.
Dealing with rocky relationships overrun with emotional turbulence, resentment and non-communication. Your spouse or partner is withdrawn. Your children are distant and acting out. Everyone is angry and dissatisfied. Chronic health issues, and tension rippling through your body, both largely due to the stress of working at things you don’t love doing. Coming home so late and exhausted, with no time left for yourself, no energy for self-care, leftover food and unpaid bills the only thing waiting for you. Living a less-than life of toxic relationships, toxic environments, and toxic patterns of thought and behavior.
Each situation is a challenge on its own. Combine any or all of these challenges, and you’re literally pushed over your threshold.
… Especially when you don’t see any signs of the storm ending in sight.
And while you’re usually the pillar of strength in your circle, always the one serving generous helpings of love and guidance to your friends, family, and coworkers, you don’t have anything left to support yourself.
You’re burned out. Mentally. Emotionally. Physically. Spiritually.
You’re tired of waking up every day feeling weak, powerless and out of control. You’re ready for some action. To prove how serious you are about changing your life, you’ve been doing everything you can to take control of your life, things like:
- Attending seminars by great spiritual teachers and leaders like Deepak Chopra
- Reading everything you can get your hands on by Hay House and watching Oprah’s Soul Sunday
- Clearing your energy with EFT, Reiki and Meditation
- Keeping a gratitude journal and coming up with your own affirmations
- Researching spiritual principles like those found in “The Secret”
Yet, try as you might, you’re still falling short of your goals. You’re tripping over the hurdles and letting them fall on top of you. You have no idea why, but you’re getting frustrated and fed up.
MAKE PEACE OF MIND A REALITY
How would it feel if you were able to completely detox your life from the negativity and nonsense, and then completely re-design it so that you can:
- Enjoy supportive, loving relationships with your spouse and children – and create lasting family memories full of love and happiness?
- Heal from past traumas, pain and negativity that hold you back from living successfully on – and in – your purpose?
- Develop financial wisdom that allows you to live in a spin-cycle of prosperity as opposed to perpetually a day late and a dollar short?
AND WHAT IF YOU CREATED ALL OF THIS – AMAZING FAMILY, CAREER AND FINANCIAL PROSPERITY – WITHOUT SOMEONE ELSE’S OPINIONS – OR ACTION – IMPOSING ON YOUR VISION OF HOW YOUR LIFE IS SUPPOSED TO BE?
I’m Michelle Barr — Intuitive Success Coach and Master Healer — and after taking control of my life, my emotions and my healing, I’m a living testimony that you can transform your existence so you can experience life at its best. All. The. Time.
I’ve rebooted my life from miserable circumstances – including an unhappy marriage and draining career – TWICE. It wasn’t until I committed myself to learning how to consciously create life on my terms that I transformed my life for the better with lasting results.
Have you heard of “The Secret?” Otherwise known as the Law of Attraction, many of my clients and I struggled to use this Universal Principle to transform our lives for the better.
It wasn’t until 2003 that I finally learned how to master it. Now that I have, I’ve developed a system designed to help you master The Law of Attraction, as well. If you’ve struggled up to this very moment with learning how to consciously create a life of purpose, prosperity and abundance using The Law of Attraction, but haven’t been very successful, read on. I’m going to tell you exactly how I did it.
DID “THE SECRET” FAIL YOU?
Just as Peter Pan taught Wendy how to fly, “The Secret” was supposed to show you how to fly over and above your struggles and create an amazing life.
Think positive thoughts and you’ll attract everything you’ve ever wanted, it declared.
And so you listened. You committed yourself to making shift happen. You read the book and listened to the audios over and over again, and maybe even joined some groups to help you really make it work. You carried your rose quartz in your purse, tucked beside your Moleskin gratitude journal, which you updated daily with “5 Things I am Grateful for Today…”
But after several weeks or even months of practice, you failed to manifest a new job, get the raise you deserve or lower your work hours. Your marriage was still on the rocks. Your husband still threatened to leave. Your children refused to behave at home or in school. Your creditors and bill collectors continued to chew up your credit report, tearing you a new one financially.
Since you failed to get results, you figured the Law of Attraction was nothing more than feel-good “woo-woo hocus pocus.” It might have worked for some, but for the most part you decided it was for suckers, and you discarded your beliefs, jilted and resigned to living your life as-is.
I UNDERSTAND EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL.
YOU CAN’T GET WHAT YOU WANT BY JUST THINKING HAPPY THOUGHTS ABOUT IT – YOU HAVE TO TAKE ACTION
What “The Secret” failed to reveal about the Law of Attraction is that it requires action. You cannot get what you want from any situation by just thinking about it.
To create change, you have to actively make changes – starting with yourself, and starting from the inside. When you change your energy, you change your life and create what you want powerfully and purposefully.
During the darkest period of my life, I had to overcome a whirlwind of painful experiences – including death, toxic relationships and an undiagnosed illness – in order to experience the life I have today. I had to change who I was in order to change my circumstances – including my understanding of the Law of Attraction and other Universal Principles.
Here’s my story.
HOW I STOPPED LIVING BY DEFAULT
I married my high school sweetheart at the age of 20, but our marriage was anything but loving or happy. To be quite honest with you, it was actually toxic, and venomous. Our relationship should have been my daily source of strength and love; instead more than a fair share of dark moments overshadowed its blessings.
And although I was just starting out in my career, work was taking it’s toll on me also.
By nature, I’m a Healer, Helper, and Intuitive Empath, so not only can I feel others’ emotions and energy, but I actively engage my energy to heal others from intense emotional and mental stress, as well.
I was great at my job. Maybe too great. I say this because I helped many people heal, but at the expense of my own health. I was emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually exhausted.
I was what you would call living by default. Living by default is when you’re living in reaction or response to your life instead of being an active participant, or co-creator of life.
I lived by default because I wasn’t in control. Everyone else was. Others called the shots; I just followed along. My husband controlled my emotions. My job controlled my work hours and paychecks. I submitted myself to meet others’ demands and expectations without regard to the effects it would have on me.
Clearly, I knew living by default wasn’t healthy. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to determine there’s nothing positive about “surviving” the turbulence of a rocky marriage, exhausting job and pressure to make ends meet each month on a check that barely covers the basics. My misery left no room for any sense of peace or fulfillment.
Despite the circumstances, I figured living by default was the norm. It was how life was meant to be – miserable and unfulfilling. We can’t all be happy, I thought.
I DIDN’T UNDERSTAND HOW TO STOP LIVING BY DEFAULT.
So I left things as they were.
I WALKED AWAY FROM DEFAULT LIVING FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 1989…
They say you’ll only change your behavior when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of changing. In other words, no matter how miserable you are, you won’t be motivated to behave differently until things become unbearable for you.
My first taste of the unbearable came in 1989.
It was a crazy year, the height of the AIDS epidemic. People were dying suddenly and painfully from this scary new virus. The outbreak, like my life, seemed to be totally out of control.
It was in the midst of this global outbreak that my best friend told me he was dying of AIDS, too.
Death rattles you to the core. The brilliance in its darkness creates instant clarity in your Soul. Upon confrontation, you’ll gain an intense and immediate new perspective, come up against everything you believe. You’ll discover what really matters in life and purge the unnecessary.
My dear friend’s sudden circumstances led me to walk away from my life in Dallas; the husband, the marriage, the unfulfilling work, and the daily drudgery of it all, to be by his side in San Antonio and share this part of his journey with him. I provided company and comfort in his last days, never once looking back on the life I had left. This time of intense questioning, emotion and introspection led me into my first spiritual awakening.
Never once did I look back. I owed it to myself – and him – to put the past behind me and build a bigger, better life than the one I left behind.
…BUT MY LIFE DIDN’T TRULY AND PERMANENTLY BEGIN TO CHANGE UNTIL 2003
After the death of my best friend, along with other friends I lost during that time, I kept to my word and rebuilt my life from scratch. By 2003, I had a new husband, new career and three children.
And I was miserable. I realized, once again, that I was living a “less-than” life. I had begun doing what was expected of me, doing what “everybody” does, putting up with what “everyone” puts up with, and I was miserable.
In other words, I succumbed to living by DEFAULT again!
I had marital problems, family problems, financial problems, work problems – and the whole house of cards was beginning to crumble.
Making matters worse, I was battling an undiagnosed illness that had been growing progressively worse for the past 7 years! Nobody knew what was going on. There was no diagnosis, no plan for treatment, and it became debilitating, slowly sucking away my vitality and my energy.
Now, remember, I’ve revealed to you that I’m an Empath. I am sensitive to others and their energy, and help heal them through sensing, feeling, reading, managing and moving energy. However, my career aggravated my health, because I was absorbing too much of everyone else’s emotional energy without managing my own.
Take that in for a second. Can you imagine – a lifelong empath, sensitive to the energy of others, helping and healing others, but clueless on how to help or heal herself?
IN ORDER TO STOP LIVING BY DEFAULT, I HAD TO STEP OUT ON FAITH AND TAKE SERIOUS ACTION…
I realized that in order to stop living in this constant state of misery, I had to do something. And, what’s more, I realized I was the only one who could do anything at all. I had to take action.
Default living comes as a result of operating from a reactive place and making decisions from an unbalanced “fight or flight” state of emergency and stress all the time. We are allowing programmed thoughts, beliefs and scripts to navigate and guide our actions. We are letting the unconscious drive our bus. (This is a big part of the reason why using The Law of Attraction isn’t as effective for us as we’d like it to be.)
I decided at that very moment in 2003, when I awoke for a moment again and saw what I had created, to turn my life into an experiment for the Law of Attraction.
At the time, I was a mental health therapist, and I saw person after person going into a healing crisis, trying to apply these principles that sounded so simple and then feeling as if they had failed, or worse yet, feeling victimized and taken advantage of. They were either writing themselves off or writing the whole idea of an abundant Universe off.
I felt that if I focused and really did the work and observed my results, I’d be able to crack the code and change my life, right?
Once I served up my life as an experimental testing ground for The Law of Attraction, I accepted the trial and error that accompanied the process and really engaged fully in this new way of living, doing and being.
…That is when I figured out how to stop living by default and how to start living by purposeful and conscious design.
IN ORDER TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER, HERE ARE TWO THINGS YOU MUST KNOW:
1. YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THE SPIRITUAL COMPONENTS UNDERLYING YOUR CURRENT CONDITIONS & EXPERIENCES.
Spiritual undercurrents exist beneath the surface of our physical reality. You don’t need to ascribe to any particular religious belief – or even believe in God – to accept this. You just have to accept and acknowledge that there’s always a spiritual component that ripples into your physical reality and your experiences and affects your life at every level.
2. YOU MUST LEARN TO MASTER YOUR ENERGY IN ALL OF ITS FORMS – AND MANAGE IT AT ALL TIMES.
You are always in energetic exchange with everything in your world. Your energy is always interacting with everyone you come in contact with. Other people will boost, attack or siphon your energy. They’ll also pull your energy into their programs, beliefs and ideas – which may not serve to elevate you to your highest potential. To consciously create a powerful life, you must consciously detach and release from unsupportive energy sources and learn to be the only one in control of your energy. You must learn to discard the programs, patterns and thoughts that threaten your sustainability. You must learn to master your own energy and manage it in your daily life.
If you’re ready to move forward and consciously transform your life into one of purposeful creation, then I invite you to experience Intuitive Success.